Event · Sat, 05 December 2026
SURRENDER - AIR VERSION with Andy Buru
# SURRENDER - AIR VERSION
# with/ mit Andy Buru
# December, 4 to 6// 2026//
# Friday: 19 00 - 22 00// Saturday: 10-13, 15-18, 19-21// Sunday 10-13, 15-18//
# High Income 220€// Normal Income 200€// Low Income 180€// fees per person// singles and couples both welcome!!//
Registration: jana.felixruckert@gmx.de
- workshop in english -
ANDY BURU on SURRENDER (AIR VARIATION)
Surrender is to trust, to let go and to fall — trusting that one will be caught by life, by love, by wonder, by another. Surrendering brings great pleasure when one learns to let go of controlling the body, the emotions, and the ego and devote oneself to something greater. It’s as applicable in lovemaking as well as in life in general. But unfortunately, there is an overvaluation of power in today’s society, and everyone is fighting for it, while surrender is undervalued.
Moreover, surrender touches upon masochism, physically enjoying endorphins rushing through the body and emotionally letting go of shameful limiting beliefs. The most basic idea I learnt from Zen Buddhism is that bliss emerges when we stop fighting and accept life as it is, and then there is no suffering. Before psychology considered masochism a disease, religion thought it to be the cure. And I think there is something to that when it’s conscious and consensual. In my experience, anyone can enjoy or at least find this exploration meaningful when it’s slow enough and well-balanced between safety and bravery.
Surrender traditionally belongs to the feminine aspect of the esoteric erotic polarity, but I’m convinced that it’s essential for everyone of any (and no) gender. Incorporating it into oneself can simply tickle one’s curious approach to life or become a life-long artistic endeavour, critical self-development, or passion for lovemaking. While teaching surrender, I also indirectly teach how to hold space for another’s process of letting go. Participants describe it as intimate, vulnerable and trusting. And it makes them more resilient to the hardships of life.
SKY AND EARTH
As rope bondage is the primary modality for my way of teaching surrender, I offer it in two different variations, earth and sky.