Cuddles, Cakes and Kinks

When:
13. December 2026, 5:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Where:
KARA
Format:
workshop
Who can join:
LGBTQIA+, only
Constellation:
solo, paired, groups - all constellations welcome (everyone needs a ticket)
Language:
English
What to know:
no prior knowledge needed
Tickets
Cuddles, Cakes and Kinks (regular)
20,00 €
Cuddles, Cakes and Kinks (low income)
15,00 €
Cuddles, Cakes and Kinks (hardship)
10,00 €
Welcome to Cuddles, Cakes and Kinks, your monthly aftercare event to take a break from cisheteropatriarchy, capitalism, the burning world, or life in general. We’re here to rest so we can resist, to play as an antidote to pressure, and to let the people eat cake. Queer people, welcome!
We are opening our wonderful house for the evening so you can come by, relax, and calm down amongst other queer people. There will be hammocks and little areas for cuddling and enjoying touch. Get or give massages. Do some soft, slow kink. Or hang out in the kitchen with us and just chat. We will be baking a bunch of cakes and there will be coffee, tea, and snacks to nourish your bodies and souls.
Light and slow kink interactions are welcome. Anything that allows you to come back to yourself and into connection with others in a soft and nice way. This is not a play party or sex club, but a playful community event. The vibe is cozy, and we don’t do genital play.
There is a separate cuddle room that is completely free from any kind of play, horny vibes, and nudity. It’s for cuddles, naps, quiet conversation, maybe reading a book.
Practical Info
The door opens at 5:00 pm and stays open until 7:00 pm (sharp).
You will need to purchase a ticket upfront as space is limited.
At 5:30 pm we will give an introduction to people who are new to the space and want to meet others. If you come later, you will still go through an introduction to the rules, space, and event at arrival.
You can then choose your space and mode (talk, cuddle, sleep, eat cake, light play) and enjoy yourself.
What to bring
Yourself and maybe things you like to share with others.
Please bring a blanket or towel to put on the yoga mats we provide.
Dress code
Soft and cozy (onesies, lounge wear, leggings, pajamas, flower dresses, hoodies…) or if you’re in the mood to dress up, you can flag queer like you’re going to pride (fabulous outfits, jeans shorts with pocket kerchiefs, leather daddies, muscle mommies, rainbow makeup…). Nudity is welcome in some areas.
Rules of Engagement
1) Cuddles, cakes and kinks is a playful community event for LGBTQIA+ people. This is not a play party or sex club. We are here to connect and rest. You can cuddle, chat, read a book, eat cake, do some light and slow BDSM, exchange massages, or even make out. The dress code is soft and cozy or flagging queer.
2) Light and slow means that you are mindful of how loud you are, how much space you take, and try to be in harmony with the rest of the room. Think cozy, consensual and cute, not intense and overwhelming.