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Event · Tue, 24 November 2026

Building Confidence as a New (or Anxious) Rope Top

Organized by K Karada House

24. November 2026, 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm CET
Where:
online
Format:
workshop
Who can join:
LGBTQIA+ & Friends
Constellation:
solo, paired, groups - all constellations welcome (everyone needs a ticket)
Language:
English with translated subtitles
What to know:
Basic rope skills of single column ties and frictions will help you with this workshop - but you can still be inspired if you are a total beginner
What to bring:
Rope if you want to try stuff. A partner if you want to try stuff. Your questions and anxieties.
Recording:
Yes, the session is recorded and will be sent to all ticket holders after the class.
Questions:
Message us via info@karada-house.de
Building Confidence as a New (or Anxious) Rope Top (regular) [Digital]
22,50 €
Building Confidence as a New (or Anxious) Rope Top (low income) [Digital]
17,50 €
Building Confidence as a New (or Anxious) Rope Top (hardship) [Digital]
12,50 €
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Can we just be real about the very real uncertainty and vulnerability that comes with holding space for someone else?! This is a class for anyone feeling unsure, anxious, or like they just keep fumbling their way through topping and not finding their flow- let’s build more confidence by exploring ideas and trying tools and tips to tap into more ease and fun in ways that feel simple and true to you
## This session will cover:
- Ways to begin and ways to end: building rituals and soft structures to hold yourself and your scenes
- Finding and playing with your unique sense of presence, authority and top space in ways that feel good and authentic to you
- What to do when your mind goes blank, anxiety kicks in, or you forget what comes next
- Shifting out of the default – ideas to expand your range if you get stuck doing the same thing or keep reverting to your comfort zone (but need more options!)
- Is it ok? Is it safe? What if I fuck up!? Experimenting with confident ways to check in (and what to do when things aren’t going to plan)
- Exercises to explore your pleasure – What do you want? What do you enjoy? Balancing your wants and needs as a top if you often find yourself oriented towards your partners wants and needs.
## Facilitator
### Sophia Rose (she/her)
Sophia is a London-based BDSM professional and educator, holding inviting spaces for exploring desire and self-discovery through rope and kink. She blends offering practical hands-on skills with a thoughtful understanding of power dynamics and communication, helping others explore with curiosity and playfulness. Practising rope since 2013, her approach is shaped by diverse professional and persona...

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