Event · Sun, 01 November 2026
A SHAMELESS TRADE
In this sex-positive workshop, we externalize our shame together and use a playful method to express and negotiate our deepest, uncensored desires. The focus is on actions that can bring us pleasure—whether giving or taking. However, we only proceed with an action if the deal feels truly right and balanced for everyone involved. An uncompromising trade—conducted with plenty of humor.
Over several rounds of negotiation, we encounter one another in constantly shifting pairings. It is not just about trying out desires, but also about recognizing our own boundaries, communicating them clearly, and accepting a "no" just as naturally as a "yes."
A workshop for anyone eager to put their shameless desires and wild fantasies on the table, open themselves up to new encounters, and discover what happens when intimacy becomes negotiable.
### Time and Rate:
From 19:00 to 22:00
The workshop will last approximately 90 minutes, followed by time for open play. You are also welcome to attend the workshop only and leave afterwards.
The workshop can be held in German or English
Sliding scale:
Low income: €25
Regular income: €35
High income: €45
### About Ari
Ari (they/them) is part of Fluyknik, a kinky queer-feminist workshop duo. They challenge conventional heteronormative ideas around sexuality, desire, and gender, and explore the intersections of power and systems of oppression. Their work engages with drag, gender fluidity, and the many possibilities of intimacy.
They share a passion for sex-positive spaces, queer pleasure, and playful forms of exchange. In this workshop, Ari invites you to explore what happens when we question shame, speak our desires out loud, and not only express our wishes, but negotiate them with each other.